ARGHH!!!!
Hello??!! Deadline is today, bayang pun tak nampak! Say wanna come at 10 o'clock, now 11:15 already and you still at home?? Eh, not your first time ffk-ing me okay Friday you stood me up Monday also you stood me up and then that day Tuesday I waited 2 hours only you came, I wait until neck also become long like giraffe already you know! And then you stayed for what?? 15 minutes and then say wanna go eat lunch??!?!! What the??? Always know how to make empty promises only, work got do or not??? Until now ask you to do one simple abstract also cannot do!!! What on earth man?? I very nice to take advantage of and annoy izit?? Wahlau I kira very nice already, don't want to report you and summore tick the 'All members of the group played a major role in the project' box, you summore want what?? Arghhh I bei tahan already you better send me your work like NOW!!!
posted by may at 7:16 PM
4 Comments:
walao... you sound so out of control when you're frusfrated and angry... kinda hilarious too if i may say so myself ;-p
chill may (literally? haha) ! the weekend's here...
man... i know what frustrating 'non existent' partners are like...
i'd say, do a great job out of it and then tell on him to your personal tutor! it's the only way to get fair marks...
experienced more or less the same thing in my first year presentation group... the leader was basically non-existent...
had a small 'coup de tat' in the group... eventually i end up handling everything...
what were these guys thinking when pulling of such things? have they no shame or guilt?
Hey May!
You should tell him/her off, curtly and politely. Professionally, if you like. Set boundaries and be firm with them. If you're not already doing this, tell them how you feel (disappointed, stood up, let down) about their behaviour in a calm and unruffled way.
If you're the leader, bug them for deadlines or "kind reminders"... Thck-skinness is a good thing to cultivate. And you don't want to be stuck carrying other people's responsibilities for the rest of your life, do ya? So it's great to start communicating your boundaries now during uni days.
Sometimes being nice can be unnecessary - even sometimes it can turn us into hypocrites cos deep down we are boiling.
I'd like to think that if God doesn't mind telling us He doesn't like something about how we do things (through rebuke, Holy Spirit prompting) then it's OK to be like Him.
Debbie
(and oh, happened to drop by today)
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